Since we all sin and no one is perfect, how are you supposed to tell if someone has these qualities?

The goal isn't to find the perfect man or woman. If that's what you want...It's not gonna happen. Passages like Titus 2 and Proverbs 31 shouldn't be seen as a checklist for prospective dates. They shouldn't be seen as a goal to work towards.

When looking for "the one," you want to find someone who is actively seeking to grow closer to God in these areas (Girls - Proverbs 31 and Titus 2 - Guys - Titus 2). No one has all of the qualities perfectly manifested (well except Jesus).

Ask These Questions

(1) Which areas are they the weakest?
(2) What are they doing about it?

If someone is completely ignoring character weaknesses, they aren't pursing Christ. If they aren't pursing Christ, they aren't someone you want to be dating.

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